When we think of something with the word “spy” in the title, we consider it to be bad and something we should stay away from. Yet, when we say that spy apps can help you save your relationship, most of you tend to think that we have positively lost our minds.
We live in an age where distances are covered in mbps/sec, not miles or Km/hour, where we rather have a conversation on Skype than actually come face to face with a person. In such an age, it would not be wrong to say that while technology is responsible for bringing people closer, it is also responsible for tearing them apart. Technology has already taken a huge toll on relationship. A father has to look through his son’s Facebook profile to know what his son is up to, a mother has to browse through her daughter’s Instagram account to see where her daughter is at any given time. There is no relationship closer than that of a parent with his or her child, and if that relationship is on collapse under the weight of technology, then there is not much hope for partners or spouses. Yet, there is hope. In order to combat technology, you have to take help of technology itself i.e. spy apps.
While spy apps might feel like the kind of applications that are intrusive by nature, yet their use depends solely on the user. If the user uses it to stalk someone, it has all the features to do just that. On the other hand if a partner uses it to keep an eye on his or her other half, they’d be able to do that. In fact they may even be able to save their marriage in one of the following ways.
- See if They Are Having an Affair
If your partner is having an affair, following them around might not be a good way because if they have even the slightest inclinations that they are being followed they’d change their tactics and you’d end up finding nothing. The only way to find out without letting them know would be through spy applications. Since they operate in stealth mode they’d never know that you are keeping an eye on them and gather all the evidence you’d need to come face to face about it.
- Discover Your Flaws
There is never only one side to a story. If you see your partner drifting away from you, you must remember them since you are one half of this team of two, you have half the role in letting them drift apart. Therefore, by using spy applications you can look into their emails and messages and find out what the problem from your end is. If they think that you no longer talk to them or share with them or you stay way too busy with your work and your friends, well then it’s time to change that, if you want to save your relationship.
- Talk To Them About It
Once you have gathered ample evidence, it is time to talk to them about it. You have to let them know that you know they are having an affair and that you know and you understand how much of a role you played in it. Tell them that you are willing to make it work if they are and that you want to start all over again. This might be a great way to save your relationship.
- Talk to Your Partner’s Secret Lover
Another good way to get the message across to your partner that you know about them having an affair is by talking to their secret lover. Whoever he or she may be is human too. They are capable of understanding what this affair is putting you through. When they started an affair with your partner they knew what they were going to put you through, they are reasonable people capable of understanding what they are putting you through. Thus, regardless of whether they listen to you or not, talking to them will be enough to let to know if there is a way to salvage your relationship or not.
- Reconnect with Your Partner
Once all that needs to be said is said and done is done, if there is a chance, then it is high time to reconnect with your partner. Talk to them and tell them all that you feel. Also let them open up to you and talk to you and once that they do, you can start rebuilding your relationship from there. It is never too late to make your relationship work if either of you wants to make it work.
The writer Nicki along with his brother Tom is a serious entrepreneur in the virtual world and has published many strategies in the form of write ups and books for online businesses to flourish. Her work on mobile phone spy has received great appreciation at TheOneSpy blog from readers. She keeps updated with the latest news. To know more about her, follow on Twitter @nickimarie222.